STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT YOUR HUSBAND.

One basic truth you should know in marriage is that, there is no perfect man or woman or simply put,
there is no perfect marriage, every successful marriage that you see or cherish so much, much work,
sacrifices and efforts have been invested. If you assume the man out there is better off than your
husband, u may as well give it a trial. The man out there you assume is a perfect man has his
weaknesses only his wife can tell you that. You are the one to bring out the kind of person you want
from your husband. Is your husband a dirty man? Then help him by showing him how to be clean. But if

you think by abusing and shouting at him will cause him to be clean, my dear it won't work. Rather both
of you would end up living like cat and rat.
Does he flirt? He goes after our young ladies and married women? Don't flare up. You cannot use fuel to
put off fire. Your husband is already on fire, so shouting and calling him all such of names is like pouring
fuel on the fire. Most women in bid to using this approach to put their husbands under control end up
been battered or thrown out of the home. What should you do in this situation? It's a time to re-
examine yourself and him. It's a time to HUMBLY ask him questions. Try to find out what exactly he
cherishes from other women that perhaps you don't have. Or ask what exactly he sees in other women
that he did not see in you. The feedback you get will go a long way to solving the issue. While doing this,
don't forget the power of prayers. A praying woman is a wining woman. So much happens when you go
on your kneels to utter situations concerning your spouse. Never you give up on him. Most men behave
like children. So equally see them as your child and keep working on him.
Stop complaining about him. Your complain will not solve any problem rather it will worsen the
situation. He may see your complain as nagging and never a corrective measure. Stop parading your
husband as if he is the worse husband on earth. He's not! Mind you, making your marriage to work is
your responsibility. Every husband and wife should learn to build their home. Learn to sought things out
by yourself. Learn to lay hands on your husband while he's asleep and pray for him. Learn to pray
together. Study the bible together. Don't live your husband in the hands of third parties to be corrected.

Every third has their own third parties that are mediating into their own case too. They don't have
solution to your marriage crisis or challenges. When people come into your marriage, they are
weakening the foundation of your marriage. Some third parties have rendered most marriages useless.
Be careful and be warned. Marriage is all about working out your own salvation by yourself. If you can
handle the challenges yourself, marriage will become a bed of roses for you, otherwise it will be full of
thorns and bristles.
STOP COMPLAINING!!!