AVOIDING A BAD MARRIAGE.

After salvation, the most important choice you will need to make is who to marry. This choice is so important that if you miss it, you will suffer for long, if you get it right then you will enjoy forever.
A bad marriage can affect every other area of your life.
This subject is so important, so many married people are hoping to be single again so as to make the right choice. If you are single please

don't just be in a hurry to get married, you have the best opportunity to prepare for it.
For two people to come together to live in peace and harmony, they must agree spiritually, mentally and physically. Just like an elephant cannot marry an ant so also a believer cannot marry an unbeliever. If an elephant marries an ant how would they live, if a goat marries a fish where would they meet? You must look for a Godly man
or a Godly woman to marry, nothing can beat this.
The devil's primary target is the family. He knows that everyone belongs to a family and if he can make two wrong people meet then he has succeeded affecting the community and nations negatively. Ignore your age and the pressure for a moment, the pressure in a wrong marriage is far worse. God has somebody for you but you must
set your priorities right. What do you need in a woman? What do you need in a man?
Marriage is not about what you want, it is about who you need, that will make you better while you make him better. It is about destiny. That is why you must know your purpose before you get married. Genesis 2:18.
You must pray before you choose. God knows the best person for you, it is only wise to seek His will.
It is very easy to know God's will when sex is not involved. The moment sex is involved and you
want to know His will then He will blank you out.
Why? Because you have broken His first Law of NO SEX before marriage.
If you have had sex in the past then you need to repent totally and stay away from each other for sometime then you can seek the face of God.
Your marriage will not be hell on earth. Your
marriage will be honorable in the name of Jesus Christ.
Don't marry for sex, don't marry because you are of age, don't marry because you are getting old, don't marry because you are lonely, don't marry because you need someone to support you financially, don't marry because you mistakenly got pregnant, don't marry because you don't want to lose the person, don't marry because of family
pressures, don't marry because you like the idea of marriage and admire every wedding gown you see, don't marry because all your friends are getting
married. But get married because you want to fulfill destiny.
Get married because you want to be a help mate.
As a man, get married because you want to fulfill your purpose. God will help you in choosing, please let His will be done. Amen!
Forward to the singles you love. God bless you!
By Pastor Chris.

TEN COMMANDMENT OF MARRIAGE TO MEN

1. Don't have another woman apart from your wife

2. Thou should not speak evil about your wife to your family.

3. Remember the labour of your wife when you were poor. So when you are rich honour her.

4. Don't compare your wife to any woman. Even your Mother.

5. 6 days maximum shall thee work 1 day shall be a Sabbath day for your wife.

6. Honour your father and mother In-law so that their daughter will not return to them

7. Do not insult your wife in public so that people will not know your foolishness.

8. Forgive your wife 70x7 in 1 day.

9. Thou shall make your wife happy at all times. Always ask her: Are you happy ?

10. Thou shall not say to your wife; leave my house. No matter what. because you are the one that should leave. Yes, She owns the House.

Right Reasons for Marriage.

FOR ALL THE GENERATIONS TO COME.
THE RIGHT REASONS FOR MARRIAGE.

1. Don't marry because of SEX.
2. Don't marry because you are getting OLD.
3. Don't marry because you are of AGE.
4. Don't marry because you’re LONELY.
5. Don't marry because you need someone to support you FINANCIALLY.
6. Don't marry because you mistakenly got PREGNANT for him.
7. Don't marry because you don't want to LOSE the PERSON.
8. Don't marry because of Family PRESSURES.
9. Don't marry because you like the IDEA Of Marriage.
10. Don't marry because of PITY or Out of PITY.
11. Don't marry because of TRIBE.
12. Don't marry because you admire all the WEDDING GOWNS you see.
13. Don't Marry because you Love KIDS.
14. Don't marry because all your Friends are getting married.
15. Don't Marry because of Physical/Academic Qualifications.
*16. Don't marry because you want to ESCAPE from your family.
*17. Don't marry because you want somebody to CARE FOR YOU.
*18. Don't marry because you want  someone TO DO what you tell him/her TO DO or ACCOMPLISH.
*19. Don't marry because you HAVE TO PAY THE DEBT of the member of the family or someone very close to you.
*20. Don't marry because you don't have ANY CHOICE.

BUT,

*MARRY BECAUSE ITS GOD'S WILL FOR YOU
MARRY BECAUSE YOU ARE READY FOR IT
MARRY BECAUSE OF LOVE
MARRY BECAUSE YOU WANT TO FULFILL GOD'S PURPOSE
MARRY BECAUSE YOU WANT TO BE A GOOD HELP- MEET.
*MARRY FOR THE GLORY OF THE LORD.

I PRAY TO GOD ALMIGHTY TO GIVE YOU ALL THE BEST LIFE PARTNERS WHO TRULY DESIRE TO MARRY YOU WITH THE RIGHT MOTIVES.

Credits:
Hagan Publications Group
Marriage Lesson 101 by Bishop Maxwell A. Hagan
star (*) signs means line added by Laica Landero
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